What is Negging

Of all the dumb therapy speak nonsense women and girls subject me to the concept of negging is the most mind numbing. The contention is that by insulting them I lower their self esteem which makes them more likely to fuck me. That’s what’s written in the textbooks anyway.

Back in my day this was called teasing, and it signaled that you could both laugh at yourselves. This was also back when people called talking to girls flirting. A different time indeed. Anyway, the first time I ever heard this was 5 years ago in LA. ██████ goes “you really like negging me”. And I said what’s that mean. And she gave the above definition.

I fucked her that night so she certainly made her point.