How does it feel?
Do you personally know what it feels like to take things from people? Clients? Women? Money? Pride?
You can play chess or you can do MMA either way one person will win and one person will lose. In the American economy we can grow the pie, but man is not the American economy and in many cases someone must lose for someone to win. Do you have anything in you that can compel you to force the outcome you desire?
Find it.